Yes, its always better to say what you feel. If you don''t, you run the risk of her interpreting it as something else, like you''re not interested. Try to work out what it is that scares you. When the enormity of becoming a Dad registers, its pretty scary, or holding the baby afraid you''ll drop her, or that she will choke if you feed her. These are all fears of the unknown, connected to the fact that it''s all new to you. If its practical things that scare you, try doing them when someone else is there to support you. The more you do something the easier it is. Above all say how you feel. |