So normal. It''s the shift from couple to family. Your baby is so dependent on others for practically everything it needs and particulary if breast feeding, there is so much of it that only your partner can do. Jealousy is so common, after all your baby now has your partner''s undivided attention, constant care, access to her boobs, thoughts and body 24hrs a day. Suddenly you feel second best and that bar the shopping, cleaning and cooking you don''t really seem included. Try to tell her how you feel, and give her space as she is bound to feel torn between the two of you. It does get easier, but you both need to understand what''s happening in each others heads and air your views. Talking is the best way to resolve this. |